A little while ago I posted a call for a replacement caller for our
contradance at Burning Man. In that post I misidentified our caller
who is planning to firedance up and down the side of the lines while
calling - it is Tracy Wilkins. In the future we might also try to
combine hooping and calling (it took a youtube search to make me aware
how amazing hooping can be).
Now that we have several replacement volunteers, I must drop off of
this list for lack of time. But I thought before I go that I would
present some of the ideas that we hope to explore many of which are
relevant to this group. I should also say that we will be looking
for adventurous experiment- friendly callers (and to generally spread
the word to dancers/callers/musicians) into the indefinite future.
There is also a nascent Western Square Dance camp at the festival (I
don't know how experimental they are going to be.)
The Vision
Beyond all the usual magical music, dancing and camaraderie, I hope
organizing this event will allow me to 'give something back' to
contradancing.
I hope first that we will attract a significant number of new young
dancers at this huge heavily under 30 festival and that this will
snowball (CA is one of the parts of the country that is graying and
needs more young dancers).
I hope we help broaden the contradancing subculture as a whole with
new moves and dance structures - see my remarks here:
http://groups.yahoo.com/group/burningmancontradance/message/13
I hope that we expand musical styles and technology.
I hope that our use of video (looping slomo views from the side and
from above with L and R labels of the relevant hands/ shoulders , etc)
to enhance and speed up contradance instruction is perfected and
spreads.
I hope we can come up with ('tastefully' flashing or varying) reactive
lighting that will reinforce the AABB structure of the music and give
new dancers more cues to pick up on for their timing. And maybe we
can solve the problem of finding a kind of lighting that is easy
enough for older eyes to see with, but has the magic and romance of
darker venues.
At this year’s dance we will be providing water at both ends of all
the lines – couples who are waiting out can reach up to a dangling
tube with a beer tap and direct a flow of water into their mouths (the
beer tap and nozzle will be inside a glowing silk flower so that no
one puts the nozzle in their mouth, the whole system is NSF/ approved
for potable water).
There will be new dancers drawn in by a non-traditional approach who
are then hooked and learn to love and support the long term survival
of old time/traditional contradancing.
Thanks to all those who responded. I now have enough information to
give the Sicilian lady a different answer every week and thoroughly
confuse her :-)
I sent the request to four discussion groups - I have listed them at the
bottom of the note in case anyone wants to join the other groups. Here
are the replies to the question:
Why is the formation known as a "Sicilian Circle"?
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Tim Brooks:
Cos' it's a dansa you canta refusa?
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Hanny Budnick:
I have no idea where I read it, but apparently the "Sicilian" circle
started out as "Caecilian" circle, named in honor of St. Caecilia, the
muse of music.
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Ramsay John Martin:
I don't KNOW the answer, but I do have an hypothesis. English dances
had men on the left and ladies on the right. I was told in Sweden that
this is a custom which came from the practice of the men taking the warm
south side of cathedrals during gatherings with the women relegated to
the cold north. Thus, after marriage, and the newlyweds turned to face
the congregation, the man was on the left and the lady on the right.
Regardless of the reality of this reasoning, the English dances did have
the sexes divided.
The Spanish waltz instead had the alternate pattern-what many of us call
a Sicilian Circle formation. Several dance manuals in the last half of
the 19th century referred to that formation "as in the Spanish dance" in
contrast to the English pattern. I hypothesize that Spain and Sicily
may have seemed similar to some English dancing masters. Today we call
the "Sicilian" formation or as it had been earlier dubbed the "Spanish"
formation by the modern designation of "improper."
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Alan Winston:
I looked into this a while back; the stuff from the 1820s is my possibly
messed up version of stuff Susan de Guardiola told me about.
Executive summary:
- There's nothing Sicilian about it.
- There's nothing Circassian about it.
The "Spanish Dance" formation (duple improper) seems to indeed have come
from Spain but been adopted by English-speaking dancing masters.
Dancing master
G.M.S. Chivers turned that longways into a circle of
couples-facing-couples in the 1820s and called it a "Chiversian" circle.
[Much detail omitted here about weird variations.] That name wasn't
particularly popular. I honestly don't know whether "Sicilian" and
"Circassian" are misprisions of "Chiversian", but I haven't seen
anything from, eg, 1840 using any of those words.
So things go along from the 1820s to the 1870s and dances in that
formation (including a specific dance sequence called the Spanish Waltz,
rather than the genre of English dances of that name, which may have
been longways dances anyway).
The English dancing masters of this period liked to assign an exotic
foreign origin to the stuff they were teaching, when they weren't
proudly proclaiming themselves the inventors of it.
In the 1860s, a specific dance in that formation called "Sicilienne
Circle" was published, with the dancing master claiming that it was
formerly popular but had fallen out of favor because of bad behavior
from dancers. (That was in Hillgrove, 1865; he was an Englishman but
published in the USA, so I don't know whether he's saying it was popular
in England or in the USA.) I can't draw a clear line from that to the
formation being called "Sicilian Circle", and I have no evidence about
how popular "Le Sicilienne" was, but at some point after that - and it
might be some time in the mid-20th century, for all I know - that was
the established name for the formation.
Hope that helps!
Full Posting at
http://groups.yahoo.com/group/trad-dance-callers/message/3039
What Elias Howe has to say in 1859:
SICILIAN CIRCLE (form as for Spanish dance) 100 steps
All balance, swing four hands-ladies chain-balance to partners and
turn-right and left-all forward and back, forward and cross to face the
next couple.
So note that this is Howe calling a specific dance "Sicilian Circle" and
identifying it as "form as for Spanish dance"; to Howe, "Sicilian
Circle" isn't a genre.
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Happy dancing,
John
John Sweeney, Dancer, England john(a)modernjive.com 01233 625 362 &
07802 940 574
http://www.contrafusion.co.uk <http://www.contrafusion.co.uk/> for
Dancing in Kent
I have a Sicilian lady at our dances who is demanding to know why the
formation is known as a "Sicilian Circle". Can anyone help?
Thanks,
John
John Sweeney, Dancer, England john(a)modernjive.com 01233 625 362 &
07802 940 574
http://www.contrafusion.co.uk for Dancing in Kent
In regards to unwelcome behavior at a dance, our community has a middle-aged
man who zeros in on the (very thin) young women (we're a college town), and
lifts them off the floor, swings them around, drops their heads towards the
floor, etc. I watched him drop a first-time dancer, TWICE in one night. I
saw her go to the restroom and followed her. She was unhurt but badly
shaken and in tears.
As a member of the organizing committee, I had a talk with him and he denied
vehemently everything I saw, saying that she "fell." I told him someone
cannot "fall" if their feet are in the air to start with. As lead, his job
is to take care of his partner. On his behalf, let me say that many of the
young women enjoy his moves, but many do not.
Because of this dancer, another local community passed a policy that
requires dancers to keep one foot on the floor at all times. I felt that
policy was a message to young people that they didn't want young people
coming to their dances as dips and aerials (done carefully and well) are how
they like to dance.
After much discussion our Board passed a policy that clearly outlines our
requirements regarding moves which lift someone off the floor, but the thing
I like best is that it outlines behavior for ALL dancers to follow. It is a
personal peeve of mine when women (and sometimes men) complain about a
dancer behind his back but will not tell the dancer what he is doing
inappropriate. That sometimes makes it hard to confront the person because
he will say, "I've never had any complaints."
Our rambunctious dancer has been following these guidelines very well for
several months now.
Here is a link to the full policy:
http://godsdance.org/GODS/New_to_Contra_files/safe%20dancing%20policy.pdf
JoLaine
Hi, As many of you know, we are contradancing at the Burning Man
festival in NV at the end of the month for the second year with a
great 3 band lineup - Lift Ticket, Noreaster and Double Apex
http://burningmancontradance.com. Our main caller is Dave Eisenstadter
with Doug McLean, Jeff Spero (who is also one of the musicians) and
Tracy Feldman (who is a beginning caller but has the advantage that
she can firedance while she calls). Our last caller was going to be
Tara Bolker but she has had to reluctantly drop out for family
reasons. Which leads me to ask - do any of you know of anyone with
calling talent who is going, has gone in the past or could perhaps be
persuaded to go to Burning Man this year (I have some extra tickets,
but no more money to subsidize).
Finally if you go to our web page, follow the 'if you want to camp
with us..." link and skim
through to the end you will find my discussion about how I hope to
keep the camp going in the future without my heavy subsidies.
Starting next
year we will have a Kickstarter campaign (check wikipedia page if
unfamiliar) and have ~$300 camp dues to cover food water and bringing
in the talent (separate from the Burning Man gate fee). There are no
guarantees we will get enough response to cover the costs but I am
hopeful. But you could say that a selling point for anyone
considering coming is that this is the last year that it is guaranteed
to happen.
Finally I would humbly suggest looking at my somewhat unusual take on
an intro- to- contra page linked from the main page.
Thanks and best wishes, Mark 352 373 3202
Sue Robishaw
Can't get through to you using Sue(a)manytracks.com as I found it on the list.
Can you send a working email address?
Thanks Much,
Jim
Austin, TX
"It's OK, I'm a Contra Dancer"
Greg,
Really, Greg, you are assuming way too much. I didn't say I had
trouble keeping a crowd in order. I was talking about our beginner
session. If I have a very small group of beginners, I sometimes don't
use the mike - but if the diameter of the initial circle I use to
teach some figures in is beyond a certain size, I have to. Not
everyone participates in the beginner session, many people come in
and are socializing while the newcomers are being taught. That means
there is some volume in a rather vibrant hall. I'm not about to
prevent people from greeting their friends while I teach. In
addition, we have an older crowd here, some of whom are hard of
hearing and they certainly can't here me without the mike. I do not
crank the volume on the headset mike, and since the hall is long, and
people enter at the back and I teach near the front, I don't need to
overwhelm anyone with the volume. But I do need the mike to teach.
Just because you are a guy with a big voice and you don't like
headset mikes doesn't mean everyone can do it your way, or that it is
the only way. Good for you, use whatever you like. I will use the
headset mike. Oh, and once the real dance starts, I don't seem to
have trouble with people ignoring the caller because I had the mike
on during the beginner session.
Martha Wild
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> I've taught many beginning ladies how to keep a strong dance frame,
> how to
> use it to regulate the degree of closeness with whoever is swinging
> them.
> It seemed to me simple for women to learn how to deal with men
> that try to
> hold them too close.
>
> And then I started dancing the woman's role from time to time, and
> in one
> dance in particular, there was a shadow swing, and my shadow was a
> larger
> man, probably with issues, uncomfortable with a man dancing the
> woman's
> role, and he grabbed me tight and got all romantic, as a joke?, but
> it was
> very uncomfortable to me, and he was larger than me, and I couldn't
> get
> extracted, and didn't say anything, and felt I understood...
>
> Dennis
>
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>> 4. Re: mental health and dance calling (Martha Edwards)
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>> Date: Sat, 9 Jul 2011 12:03:17 -0400
>> From: Amy Cann <acann(a)putneyschool.org>
>> To: "Caller's discussion list" <callers(a)sharedweight.net>
>> Subject: Re: [Callers] mental health and dance calling
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>> It's funny, I'm listening to all of these stories and thinking
>> about the
>> creepers I've run into over the years, and I'm thinking to myself:
>>
>> "Well, it's really quite simple, isn't it? Ladies, if a gent is being
>> inappropriate, walk away!
>>
>> Just wait until you're out at the top or bottom, turn to him and
>> say 'I am
>> uncomfortable with what you are doing and am not going to finish
>> this dance
>> with you' -- and then do it. Walk off. And if he's really
>> offensive, don't
>> wait until the end, bail out right then and there. The world won't
>> end if a
>> line of dancers has to cope with a hole. What's more important,
>> ten more
>> minutes of perfect dancing for that line, at that dance, or a
>> really good
>> behavior-modification moment that will actually improve the dance
>> community
>> more in the long run?"
>>
>> And yet it isn't that simple, is it? We don't do it. We have these
>> halls
>> just filled with women who are about as uniformly
>> modern/educated/self-actuated/socially conscious/feminist as it
>> gets, who
>> spend our days running businesses or doing high end IT/research
>> -- or
>> teaching children or counseling teens or lobbying to pass laws on
>> issues
>> just like this -- and not once in my experience have I ever known
>> a woman
>> to
>> say "Nope, enough, not going to let you do this."
>>
>> Heck, I've marched eighth grade boys (and girls) off the
>> playground for
>> inappropriate behavior without a flinch, but at a dance, when it's
>> *me?
>> *I've
>> been groped and dipped and clenched a few times over the years and
>> the most
>> overt thing I've ever done is reached back, grabbed his hand,
>> moved it up
>> about six inches to the small of my back, and said "works much
>> better for
>> me
>> if you keep your hand *there". *The other times, I've simply
>> become ice
>> cold/distant and stopped making eye contact - which can be quite the
>> putdown
>> if you really work it, smile and nod at all of your neighbors but
>> shut down
>> completely every time you return to your partner. But have I truly
>> called
>> them out on it? No. And neither have any of my peers.
>>
>> Food for thought.
>>
>>
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>> Message: 2
>> Date: Sat, 9 Jul 2011 13:15:09 -0400
>> From: "Bree Kalb" <bree(a)mindspring.com>
>> To: "Caller's discussion list" <callers(a)sharedweight.net>
>> Subject: Re: [Callers] mental health and dance calling
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>>
>> Amy wrote: But have I truly called
>> them out on it? No. And neither have any of my peers.
>>
>> I have.
>> Now that I'm older, it doesn't happen as often, but still does
>> occasionally.
>> I've put my left palm against a man's shoulder and pushed him
>> back, saying:
>> "I don't want to dance that close.' Or: "I don't sleaze dance."
>> The next
>> time they've asked me to dance, I've said "I'll only dance with
>> you again
>> if you don't (do that particular thing again.)" They've always
>> agreed and
>> behaved themselves, for that dance. When I come to them in the
>> line, I
>> automatically push them back a little. But I know I'm an
>> exception; the
>> younger, shyer women don't feel comfortable setting limits. Even
>> someone
>> like Amy (who I surmise is not particularly shy) is uneasy being
>> so bold.
>> So it's important that the organizers pay attention and act. Our
>> board
>> actually banned a guy from dancing because he was preying on
>> teenage girls;
>> other dance organizers in the area followed suit.
>>
>> Bree Kalb
>> Carrboro
>>
>>
>>
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>> Message: 3
>> Date: Sat, 9 Jul 2011 13:27:09 -0400
>> From: Amy Cann <acann(a)putneyschool.org>
>> To: "Caller's discussion list" <callers(a)sharedweight.net>
>> Subject: Re: [Callers] mental health and dance calling
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>> I'll bet this discussion is going to continue for a bit, so let's
>> clarify:
>>
>> I've ALWAYS made people stop what they are doing -- made them
>> leave more
>> room, move a hand -- I've just always done it non-verbally. If I
>> don't want
>> to be dipped, I don't get dipped -- I can shift my weight or go
>> inert in
>> ways that make it impossible. I'm not shy about taking care of
>> myself, and
>> that cold/silent treatment is pretty darn harsh/unmistakable (just
>> ask my
>> husband :)
>>
>> But on reflection, it's always been a private interchange. By
>> "calling
>> out",
>> I mean it in the most specific way: calling them out from the
>> crowd, into
>> the spotlight, to be addressed in front of an audience. I've very
>> rarely
>> seen this happen, and have never heard of a woman walking off the
>> floor
>> mid-dance.
>>
>>
>>
>>
>>
>> On Sat, Jul 9, 2011 at 1:15 PM, Bree Kalb <bree(a)mindspring.com>
>> wrote:
>>
>>> Amy wrote: But have I truly called
>>>
>>> them out on it? No. And neither have any of my peers.
>>>
>>> I have.
>>> Now that I'm older, it doesn't happen as often, but still does
>>> occasionally.
>>> I've put my left palm against a man's shoulder and pushed him back,
>> saying:
>>> "I don't want to dance that close.' Or: "I don't sleaze dance."
>>> The next
>>> time they've asked me to dance, I've said "I'll only dance with you
>> again
>>> if you don't (do that particular thing again.)" They've always
>>> agreed and
>>> behaved themselves, for that dance. When I come to them in the
>>> line, I
>>> automatically push them back a little. But I know I'm an
>>> exception; the
>>> younger, shyer women don't feel comfortable setting limits. Even
>>> someone
>>> like Amy (who I surmise is not particularly shy) is uneasy being
>>> so bold.
>> So
>>> it's important that the organizers pay attention and act. Our board
>> actually
>>> banned a guy from dancing because he was preying on teenage
>>> girls; other
>>> dance organizers in the area followed suit.
>>>
>>> Bree Kalb
>>> Carrboro
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>> Date: Sat, 9 Jul 2011 14:32:07 -0500
>> From: Martha Edwards <meedwards(a)westendweb.com>
>> To: "Caller's discussion list" <callers(a)sharedweight.net>
>> Subject: Re: [Callers] mental health and dance calling
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>> Good points, all, as usual.
>>
>> The more difficult problem is how to keep the creeps from behaving
>> that way
>> with younger, or newer, dancers, who don't know yet what sort of
>> atmosphere
>> we generally maintain, and are reluctant to "cause a scene".
>> Mostly, I
>> think, if it's too bad, they just go away, never to return and
>> find out
>> that
>> 99% of dancers would never think of acting that way.
>>
>> So, when we tell these folks a direct "NO" (and we should, oh yes, we
>> should!) we can do those dancers a favor and tell the creeps
>> exactly what
>> they did that was offensive. Tell them what they did and how you
>> feel about
>> it. And tell a trustworthy board member.
>>
>> I admit I haven't always been direct with people on my own behalf
>> - I just
>> get away and move on. Oddly, I'm much more comfortable speaking to
>> these
>> folks on behalf of others. No fear. Wonder what that's about.
>>
>> M
>> E
>>
>> On Sat, Jul 9, 2011 at 12:27 PM, Amy Cann <acann(a)putneyschool.org>
>> wrote:
>>
>>> I'll bet this discussion is going to continue for a bit, so let's
>> clarify:
>>>
>>> I've ALWAYS made people stop what they are doing -- made them
>>> leave more
>>> room, move a hand -- I've just always done it non-verbally. If I
>>> don't
>> want
>>> to be dipped, I don't get dipped -- I can shift my weight or go
>>> inert in
>>> ways that make it impossible. I'm not shy about taking care of
>>> myself,
>> and
>>> that cold/silent treatment is pretty darn harsh/unmistakable
>>> (just ask my
>>> husband :)
>>>
>>> But on reflection, it's always been a private interchange. By
>>> "calling
>>> out",
>>> I mean it in the most specific way: calling them out from the
>>> crowd, into
>>> the spotlight, to be addressed in front of an audience. I've very
>>> rarely
>>> seen this happen, and have never heard of a woman walking off the
>>> floor
>>> mid-dance.
>>>
>>>
>>>
>>>
>>>
>>> On Sat, Jul 9, 2011 at 1:15 PM, Bree Kalb <bree(a)mindspring.com>
>>> wrote:
>>>
>>>> Amy wrote: But have I truly called
>>>>
>>>> them out on it? No. And neither have any of my peers.
>>>>
>>>> I have.
>>>> Now that I'm older, it doesn't happen as often, but still does
>>>> occasionally.
>>>> I've put my left palm against a man's shoulder and pushed him back,
>>> saying:
>>>> "I don't want to dance that close.' Or: "I don't sleaze dance." The
>> next
>>>> time they've asked me to dance, I've said "I'll only dance with
>>>> you
>>> again
>>>> if you don't (do that particular thing again.)" They've always
>>>> agreed
>> and
>>>> behaved themselves, for that dance. When I come to them in the
>>>> line, I
>>>> automatically push them back a little. But I know I'm an
>>>> exception; the
>>>> younger, shyer women don't feel comfortable setting limits. Even
>> someone
>>>> like Amy (who I surmise is not particularly shy) is uneasy being so
>> bold.
>>> So
>>>> it's important that the organizers pay attention and act. Our board
>>> actually
>>>> banned a guy from dancing because he was preying on teenage girls;
>> other
>>>> dance organizers in the area followed suit.
>>>>
>>>> Bree Kalb
>>>> Carrboro
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>>
>> --
>> As you set out for Ithaka, pray that your journey be long, full of
>> adventure, full of discovery...
>> May there be many summer mornings when, with what pleasure, with
>> what joy,
>> you enter harbors you're seeing for the first time.
>> ~Constantine Cavafy, "Ithaka" 1911
>>
>>
>> ------------------------------
>>
>> Message: 5
>> Date: Sat, 9 Jul 2011 15:09:25 -0500
>> From: Martha Edwards <meedwards(a)westendweb.com>
>> To: "Caller's discussion list" <callers(a)sharedweight.net>
>> Subject: Re: [Callers] unwelcome behavior
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>> Here, it's easy. We don't allow lifting people off the floor.
>>
>> We have one person with a very mild mental illness who wasn't
>> judging very
>> well when to do it and when not, and wasn't always doing it
>> safely, so we
>> just made it a rule, not to be broken, that no one does it, to
>> make it
>> easier for him to remember.
>>
>> We also have a board member who loves doing aerials, does them
>> with safety
>> and with permission and all other good stuff, but he can't do it
>> at our
>> dances either, just because the hard-and-fast rule is the only way
>> we can
>> keep the rest of us from being cut off at the knees when the other
>> guy was
>> swinging new dancers off their feet and their legs cut a six-foot
>> circle
>> sweep.
>>
>> I also saw a caller in Kansas City stop a dance once and tell a
>> particularly
>> aggressive dancer to stop lifting people off the ground. "I have
>> liability
>> here, and I'm not going to continue calling if you keep doing
>> that." I
>> think the dancers applauded.
>>
>> I had the pleasure of meeting Frankie Manning, who invented the
>> aerial in
>> swing dancing in 1935, and was particularly impressed with the
>> amount of
>> practice he and his partner did before they ever tried it on a
>> dance floor
>> -
>> with mattresses covering the floor of his living room while they
>> learned
>> how.
>>
>> M
>> E
>>
>> On Sat, Jul 9, 2011 at 10:22 AM, Greg McKenzie <grekenzie(a)gmail.com>
>> wrote:
>>
>>>
>>>
>>> I would love to hear how other dance communities have dealt with
>>> this
>>> issue.
>>>
>>> - Greg McKenzie
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>> Message: 6
>> Date: Sat, 9 Jul 2011 14:12:41 -0700 (PDT)
>> From: Richard Mckeever <macmck(a)ymail.com>
>> To: Caller's discussion list <callers(a)sharedweight.net>
>> Subject: [Callers] alternate formations
>> Message-ID:
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>> Here is a new topic...
>>
>> Recently I have noticed that many of the programs presented have
>> consisted
>> solely of duple improper contras with a couple Becket dances
>> thrown in for
>> variety.
>>
>> I would be interesting to hear how other callers incorporate other
>> formations in their programs and how they and the dancer feel
>> about it
>>
>> This would include - but not be limited to:
>>
>> circles dances
>> Sicilian circles
>> Squares
>> 4 facing 4
>> triple minors
>> scatter mixers
>> other??
>>
>> Comments by formation would be interesting as would regional
>> variations in
>> programming
>>
>> Mac McKeever
>> St Louis
>>
>> ------------------------------
>>
>> Message: 7
>> Date: Sat, 09 Jul 2011 15:22:23 -0700 (PDT)
>> From: Alan Winston - SSRL Central Computing
>> <winston(a)slac.stanford.edu>
>> To: Richard Mckeever <macmck(a)ymail.com>
>> Cc: Caller's discussion list <callers(a)sharedweight.net>
>> Subject: Re: [Callers] alternate formations
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>> Mac asked about how other callerrs incorporate other formations
>> into their
>> programs.
>>
>>
>> I call English (for 25+ years), barn dances, historical-themed
>> (Regency/Early
>> American, Civil War, Dickens) and contra (for the last five or so
>> years,
>> but
>> only a few times a year).
>>
>> My answers are different for each kind of thing.
>>
>> For English, I typically call more duple minor (usually proper) than
>> anything
>> else, but try to mix it up with small-set dances (two-couple set,
>> three-couple
>> set, squares) and a triple minor or two in an evening. Since
>> tunes go with
>> particular dances, I also consider variety in mood, key, meter,
>> and tempo
>> when
>> I'm making up the program. (I'll also use what I know about the
>> musicians
>> I
>> have that night and try to keep away from notey reels for a
>> fiddler with
>> tendinitis, bias toward Bb tunes if I have a cello player, etc.)
>>
>> For barn dances, anything goes. Sicilians, threesome Sicilians, big
>> circles,
>> grand march, circle mixer, whatever.
>>
>> For historically-themed, it depends somewhat on what I can justify
>> historically, so Regency has lots of longways duples and some
>> triples,
>> mixed
>> with an occasional three-couple set (adapted from a triple minor,
>> like
>> Fandango, Prince William, etc), interspersed with waltzes.
>>
>> For Civil War / Victorian, Sicilians, threesome Sicilians, whole
>> sets in
>> longways formation (Gothic Dance, Virginia Reel/Roger de
>> Coverley), mixed
>> up
>> with waltzes, polkas, schottisches and galops.
>>
>> Around here (SF Bay Area) if you do a whole evening of duple-minor
>> improper
>> contras at a contra dance, nobody complains about it. Some
>> callers like to
>> include a square or two in an evening. A noticeable number of
>> people will
>> sit
>> down if they realize it's a square. (As a dancer, I've had a
>> partner bail
>> on
>> me when she realized it was a square.) That doesn't happen as
>> much at
>> local
>> weekend or week-long camps, but at regular dances with local
>> callers, 10%
>> or
>> more of the people who'd be up for a contra sit down for a
>> square. I'm not
>> the
>> miracle square dance caller who's going to change their minds
>> about it,
>> either,
>> so I don't program squares.
>>
>> When I first started calling contras here, my ten-dance program
>> might have
>> a
>> circle mixer in slot three and a triplet sometime after the
>> break. I've
>> had
>> complaints relayed to me about calling 'gimmicky' dances, and I
>> wasn't
>> getting
>> great response from the triplets, so I've dropped those. I want
>> to get
>> invited
>> back to call again, and I don't need to change everybody's mind
>> about what
>> a
>> good time is.
>>
>> My most recent program (a very successful outing in Monterey last
>> month)
>> had a
>> circle mixer in slot three (setting the ground for the poussette
>> figure I
>> used
>> in "Joyride" later) and a four-face-four right after the break,
>> and I got
>> positive response to both of those. (The music was great; if it
>> weren't I
>> could have had the best program in the world and it wouldn't have
>> been a
>> wonderful evening.)
>>
>> -- Alan
>>
>> --
>>
>> =====================================================================
>> ==========
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>> 650/926-3056
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> Message: 3
> Date: Sat, 23 Jul 2011 07:36:32 -0700
> From: Greg McKenzie <grekenzie(a)gmail.com>
> To: "Caller's discussion list" <callers(a)sharedweight.net>
> Subject: [Callers] Head Mikes and Mike Heads
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> Martha Wild <mawild(a)sbcglobal.net> wrote:
>
>> Well, I love a headset mike. I don't have a loud voice, and no
>> amount of
>> voice training is going to give me one. If there are more than a few
>> newcomers, and a small number of people in the hall talking, I
>> will be
>> hoarse by the time I finish the beginners workshop without a
>> headset mike.
>>
>
> I don't know what kind of voice training you have had. It
> certainly is
> possible to learn how increase your volume without causing
> additional stress
> on your voice. That, however, misses the whole point. Volume is
> just one
> tool we can use as masters-of-ceremony, but it is a poor substitute
> for
> learning how to earn and hold the attention of a crowd.
>
> Learning how to earn and hold attention is a core calling skill.
> Cranking
> up the volume and bludgeoning the crowd into submission with higher
> decibels
> is all too common at all kinds of events using a PA system. On its
> own this
> tactic naturally results in a much higher noise level in the room and
> increased stress for everyone. This kind of thing can make you
> tired just
> by being in the room. Fortunately, most good callers have learned
> that this
> tactic has major pitfalls. Those with naturally loud voices are
> usually the
> worst offenders because they have learned to shout down competition
> and
> dominate the sound space. This is a poor communication strategy.
> It can be
> effective in the moment but over the course of the evening the
> caller loses
> the respect of the dancers.
>
> Excellent callers know how to manage the communication process.
> Who are you
> competing with for attention and why? Is there some way to
> accommodate the
> other communication processes going on? How do you pace the
> evening to give
> everyone a chance to communicate easily? A large part of the
> reason people
> attend social events is to talk, and isn't it the caller's job to
> accommodate that? Do you provide cues and time to allow dancers to
> transition gracefully from social talking to a walk-through? Do
> you work
> with the band to provide clear transitions to gather folks into the
> hall or
> to switch from socializing to listening? Does the band understand
> when to
> remain quiet themselves? Do you start with instructions that require
> physical movement of the dancers? Is it clear to the dancers that
> listening
> to the caller is the quickest and most effective way that they can
> achieve
> their own personal goals? Is the information you're giving out
> essential?
> Do you choose your words carefully, articulate well, and speak
> slowly and
> clearly?
>
> A first-timers orientation session is problematic for numerous
> reasons. If
> the session is held in the main hall, using the PA system violates
> the first
> rule of microphone etiquette because you are speaking to a smaller
> group
> over the mike. (Always speak to the entire hall when when using a
> microphone!) Consequently you are training everyone else in the
> room to
> ignore your voice--a questionable strategy for a caller on its
> face. If you
> attempt to teach any dance figures in your session you will face the
> additional problem created by spreading the listeners into a line,
> which
> makes it more difficult to speak without a mike. (This is one of many
> reasons I recommend *not *teaching any figures during the optional
> first-timer's orientation.) It is much more effective to teach the
> basics
> of walking and giving weight in a small circle where you can
> communicate
> without a mike and keep the session under 10-15 minutes.
>
> We spend a lot of time here talking about sound engineering issues,
> microphones, and monitor speakers. It might be more productive to
> discuss
> how the caller can manage their own communication as well as the
> entire
> hall. When used appropriately an unamplified whisper can be much more
> effective than shouting through an expensive PA system. It's not the
> volume.
>
> -Greg McKenzie (who has a degree in Speech Communication and sometimes
> obsesses about these things)
>
>
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Martha Wild <mawild(a)sbcglobal.net> wrote:
> Well, I love a headset mike. I don't have a loud voice, and no amount of
> voice training is going to give me one. If there are more than a few
> newcomers, and a small number of people in the hall talking, I will be
> hoarse by the time I finish the beginners workshop without a headset mike.
>
I don't know what kind of voice training you have had. It certainly is
possible to learn how increase your volume without causing additional stress
on your voice. That, however, misses the whole point. Volume is just one
tool we can use as masters-of-ceremony, but it is a poor substitute for
learning how to earn and hold the attention of a crowd.
Learning how to earn and hold attention is a core calling skill. Cranking
up the volume and bludgeoning the crowd into submission with higher decibels
is all too common at all kinds of events using a PA system. On its own this
tactic naturally results in a much higher noise level in the room and
increased stress for everyone. This kind of thing can make you tired just
by being in the room. Fortunately, most good callers have learned that this
tactic has major pitfalls. Those with naturally loud voices are usually the
worst offenders because they have learned to shout down competition and
dominate the sound space. This is a poor communication strategy. It can be
effective in the moment but over the course of the evening the caller loses
the respect of the dancers.
Excellent callers know how to manage the communication process. Who are you
competing with for attention and why? Is there some way to accommodate the
other communication processes going on? How do you pace the evening to give
everyone a chance to communicate easily? A large part of the reason people
attend social events is to talk, and isn't it the caller's job to
accommodate that? Do you provide cues and time to allow dancers to
transition gracefully from social talking to a walk-through? Do you work
with the band to provide clear transitions to gather folks into the hall or
to switch from socializing to listening? Does the band understand when to
remain quiet themselves? Do you start with instructions that require
physical movement of the dancers? Is it clear to the dancers that listening
to the caller is the quickest and most effective way that they can achieve
their own personal goals? Is the information you're giving out essential?
Do you choose your words carefully, articulate well, and speak slowly and
clearly?
A first-timers orientation session is problematic for numerous reasons. If
the session is held in the main hall, using the PA system violates the first
rule of microphone etiquette because you are speaking to a smaller group
over the mike. (Always speak to the entire hall when when using a
microphone!) Consequently you are training everyone else in the room to
ignore your voice--a questionable strategy for a caller on its face. If you
attempt to teach any dance figures in your session you will face the
additional problem created by spreading the listeners into a line, which
makes it more difficult to speak without a mike. (This is one of many
reasons I recommend *not *teaching any figures during the optional
first-timer's orientation.) It is much more effective to teach the basics
of walking and giving weight in a small circle where you can communicate
without a mike and keep the session under 10-15 minutes.
We spend a lot of time here talking about sound engineering issues,
microphones, and monitor speakers. It might be more productive to discuss
how the caller can manage their own communication as well as the entire
hall. When used appropriately an unamplified whisper can be much more
effective than shouting through an expensive PA system. It's not the
volume.
-Greg McKenzie (who has a degree in Speech Communication and sometimes
obsesses about these things)
I've taught many beginning ladies how to keep a strong dance frame, how to
use it to regulate the degree of closeness with whoever is swinging them.
It seemed to me simple for women to learn how to deal with men that try to
hold them too close.
And then I started dancing the woman's role from time to time, and in one
dance in particular, there was a shadow swing, and my shadow was a larger
man, probably with issues, uncomfortable with a man dancing the woman's
role, and he grabbed me tight and got all romantic, as a joke?, but it was
very uncomfortable to me, and he was larger than me, and I couldn't get
extracted, and didn't say anything, and felt I understood...
Dennis
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> 4. Re: mental health and dance calling (Martha Edwards)
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> Message: 1
> Date: Sat, 9 Jul 2011 12:03:17 -0400
> From: Amy Cann <acann(a)putneyschool.org>
> To: "Caller's discussion list" <callers(a)sharedweight.net>
> Subject: Re: [Callers] mental health and dance calling
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> It's funny, I'm listening to all of these stories and thinking about the
> creepers I've run into over the years, and I'm thinking to myself:
>
> "Well, it's really quite simple, isn't it? Ladies, if a gent is being
> inappropriate, walk away!
>
> Just wait until you're out at the top or bottom, turn to him and say 'I am
> uncomfortable with what you are doing and am not going to finish this dance
> with you' -- and then do it. Walk off. And if he's really offensive, don't
> wait until the end, bail out right then and there. The world won't end if a
> line of dancers has to cope with a hole. What's more important, ten more
> minutes of perfect dancing for that line, at that dance, or a really good
> behavior-modification moment that will actually improve the dance community
> more in the long run?"
>
> And yet it isn't that simple, is it? We don't do it. We have these halls
> just filled with women who are about as uniformly
> modern/educated/self-actuated/socially conscious/feminist as it gets, who
> spend our days running businesses or doing high end IT/research -- or
> teaching children or counseling teens or lobbying to pass laws on issues
> just like this -- and not once in my experience have I ever known a woman
> to
> say "Nope, enough, not going to let you do this."
>
> Heck, I've marched eighth grade boys (and girls) off the playground for
> inappropriate behavior without a flinch, but at a dance, when it's *me?
> *I've
> been groped and dipped and clenched a few times over the years and the most
> overt thing I've ever done is reached back, grabbed his hand, moved it up
> about six inches to the small of my back, and said "works much better for
> me
> if you keep your hand *there". *The other times, I've simply become ice
> cold/distant and stopped making eye contact - which can be quite the
> putdown
> if you really work it, smile and nod at all of your neighbors but shut down
> completely every time you return to your partner. But have I truly called
> them out on it? No. And neither have any of my peers.
>
> Food for thought.
>
>
> ------------------------------
>
> Message: 2
> Date: Sat, 9 Jul 2011 13:15:09 -0400
> From: "Bree Kalb" <bree(a)mindspring.com>
> To: "Caller's discussion list" <callers(a)sharedweight.net>
> Subject: Re: [Callers] mental health and dance calling
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> Amy wrote: But have I truly called
> them out on it? No. And neither have any of my peers.
>
> I have.
> Now that I'm older, it doesn't happen as often, but still does
> occasionally.
> I've put my left palm against a man's shoulder and pushed him back, saying:
> "I don't want to dance that close.' Or: "I don't sleaze dance." The next
> time they've asked me to dance, I've said "I'll only dance with you again
> if you don't (do that particular thing again.)" They've always agreed and
> behaved themselves, for that dance. When I come to them in the line, I
> automatically push them back a little. But I know I'm an exception; the
> younger, shyer women don't feel comfortable setting limits. Even someone
> like Amy (who I surmise is not particularly shy) is uneasy being so bold.
> So it's important that the organizers pay attention and act. Our board
> actually banned a guy from dancing because he was preying on teenage girls;
> other dance organizers in the area followed suit.
>
> Bree Kalb
> Carrboro
>
>
>
> ------------------------------
>
> Message: 3
> Date: Sat, 9 Jul 2011 13:27:09 -0400
> From: Amy Cann <acann(a)putneyschool.org>
> To: "Caller's discussion list" <callers(a)sharedweight.net>
> Subject: Re: [Callers] mental health and dance calling
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> I'll bet this discussion is going to continue for a bit, so let's clarify:
>
> I've ALWAYS made people stop what they are doing -- made them leave more
> room, move a hand -- I've just always done it non-verbally. If I don't want
> to be dipped, I don't get dipped -- I can shift my weight or go inert in
> ways that make it impossible. I'm not shy about taking care of myself, and
> that cold/silent treatment is pretty darn harsh/unmistakable (just ask my
> husband :)
>
> But on reflection, it's always been a private interchange. By "calling
> out",
> I mean it in the most specific way: calling them out from the crowd, into
> the spotlight, to be addressed in front of an audience. I've very rarely
> seen this happen, and have never heard of a woman walking off the floor
> mid-dance.
>
>
>
>
>
> On Sat, Jul 9, 2011 at 1:15 PM, Bree Kalb <bree(a)mindspring.com> wrote:
>
> > Amy wrote: But have I truly called
> >
> > them out on it? No. And neither have any of my peers.
> >
> > I have.
> > Now that I'm older, it doesn't happen as often, but still does
> > occasionally.
> > I've put my left palm against a man's shoulder and pushed him back,
> saying:
> > "I don't want to dance that close.' Or: "I don't sleaze dance." The next
> > time they've asked me to dance, I've said "I'll only dance with you
> again
> > if you don't (do that particular thing again.)" They've always agreed and
> > behaved themselves, for that dance. When I come to them in the line, I
> > automatically push them back a little. But I know I'm an exception; the
> > younger, shyer women don't feel comfortable setting limits. Even someone
> > like Amy (who I surmise is not particularly shy) is uneasy being so bold.
> So
> > it's important that the organizers pay attention and act. Our board
> actually
> > banned a guy from dancing because he was preying on teenage girls; other
> > dance organizers in the area followed suit.
> >
> > Bree Kalb
> > Carrboro
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> Date: Sat, 9 Jul 2011 14:32:07 -0500
> From: Martha Edwards <meedwards(a)westendweb.com>
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> Subject: Re: [Callers] mental health and dance calling
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> Good points, all, as usual.
>
> The more difficult problem is how to keep the creeps from behaving that way
> with younger, or newer, dancers, who don't know yet what sort of atmosphere
> we generally maintain, and are reluctant to "cause a scene". Mostly, I
> think, if it's too bad, they just go away, never to return and find out
> that
> 99% of dancers would never think of acting that way.
>
> So, when we tell these folks a direct "NO" (and we should, oh yes, we
> should!) we can do those dancers a favor and tell the creeps exactly what
> they did that was offensive. Tell them what they did and how you feel about
> it. And tell a trustworthy board member.
>
> I admit I haven't always been direct with people on my own behalf - I just
> get away and move on. Oddly, I'm much more comfortable speaking to these
> folks on behalf of others. No fear. Wonder what that's about.
>
> M
> E
>
> On Sat, Jul 9, 2011 at 12:27 PM, Amy Cann <acann(a)putneyschool.org> wrote:
>
> > I'll bet this discussion is going to continue for a bit, so let's
> clarify:
> >
> > I've ALWAYS made people stop what they are doing -- made them leave more
> > room, move a hand -- I've just always done it non-verbally. If I don't
> want
> > to be dipped, I don't get dipped -- I can shift my weight or go inert in
> > ways that make it impossible. I'm not shy about taking care of myself,
> and
> > that cold/silent treatment is pretty darn harsh/unmistakable (just ask my
> > husband :)
> >
> > But on reflection, it's always been a private interchange. By "calling
> > out",
> > I mean it in the most specific way: calling them out from the crowd, into
> > the spotlight, to be addressed in front of an audience. I've very rarely
> > seen this happen, and have never heard of a woman walking off the floor
> > mid-dance.
> >
> >
> >
> >
> >
> > On Sat, Jul 9, 2011 at 1:15 PM, Bree Kalb <bree(a)mindspring.com> wrote:
> >
> > > Amy wrote: But have I truly called
> > >
> > > them out on it? No. And neither have any of my peers.
> > >
> > > I have.
> > > Now that I'm older, it doesn't happen as often, but still does
> > > occasionally.
> > > I've put my left palm against a man's shoulder and pushed him back,
> > saying:
> > > "I don't want to dance that close.' Or: "I don't sleaze dance." The
> next
> > > time they've asked me to dance, I've said "I'll only dance with you
> > again
> > > if you don't (do that particular thing again.)" They've always agreed
> and
> > > behaved themselves, for that dance. When I come to them in the line, I
> > > automatically push them back a little. But I know I'm an exception; the
> > > younger, shyer women don't feel comfortable setting limits. Even
> someone
> > > like Amy (who I surmise is not particularly shy) is uneasy being so
> bold.
> > So
> > > it's important that the organizers pay attention and act. Our board
> > actually
> > > banned a guy from dancing because he was preying on teenage girls;
> other
> > > dance organizers in the area followed suit.
> > >
> > > Bree Kalb
> > > Carrboro
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> Message: 5
> Date: Sat, 9 Jul 2011 15:09:25 -0500
> From: Martha Edwards <meedwards(a)westendweb.com>
> To: "Caller's discussion list" <callers(a)sharedweight.net>
> Subject: Re: [Callers] unwelcome behavior
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> Here, it's easy. We don't allow lifting people off the floor.
>
> We have one person with a very mild mental illness who wasn't judging very
> well when to do it and when not, and wasn't always doing it safely, so we
> just made it a rule, not to be broken, that no one does it, to make it
> easier for him to remember.
>
> We also have a board member who loves doing aerials, does them with safety
> and with permission and all other good stuff, but he can't do it at our
> dances either, just because the hard-and-fast rule is the only way we can
> keep the rest of us from being cut off at the knees when the other guy was
> swinging new dancers off their feet and their legs cut a six-foot circle
> sweep.
>
> I also saw a caller in Kansas City stop a dance once and tell a
> particularly
> aggressive dancer to stop lifting people off the ground. "I have liability
> here, and I'm not going to continue calling if you keep doing that." I
> think the dancers applauded.
>
> I had the pleasure of meeting Frankie Manning, who invented the aerial in
> swing dancing in 1935, and was particularly impressed with the amount of
> practice he and his partner did before they ever tried it on a dance floor
> -
> with mattresses covering the floor of his living room while they learned
> how.
>
> M
> E
>
> On Sat, Jul 9, 2011 at 10:22 AM, Greg McKenzie <grekenzie(a)gmail.com>
> wrote:
>
> >
> >
> > I would love to hear how other dance communities have dealt with this
> > issue.
> >
> > - Greg McKenzie
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> Message: 6
> Date: Sat, 9 Jul 2011 14:12:41 -0700 (PDT)
> From: Richard Mckeever <macmck(a)ymail.com>
> To: Caller's discussion list <callers(a)sharedweight.net>
> Subject: [Callers] alternate formations
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> Here is a new topic...
>
> Recently I have noticed that many of the programs presented have consisted
> solely of duple improper contras with a couple Becket dances thrown in for
> variety.
>
> I would be interesting to hear how other callers incorporate other
> formations in their programs and how they and the dancer feel about it
>
> This would include - but not be limited to:
>
> circles dances
> Sicilian circles
> Squares
> 4 facing 4
> triple minors
> scatter mixers
> other??
>
> Comments by formation would be interesting as would regional variations in
> programming
>
> Mac McKeever
> St Louis
>
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> Message: 7
> Date: Sat, 09 Jul 2011 15:22:23 -0700 (PDT)
> From: Alan Winston - SSRL Central Computing
> <winston(a)slac.stanford.edu>
> To: Richard Mckeever <macmck(a)ymail.com>
> Cc: Caller's discussion list <callers(a)sharedweight.net>
> Subject: Re: [Callers] alternate formations
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> Mac asked about how other callerrs incorporate other formations into their
> programs.
>
>
> I call English (for 25+ years), barn dances, historical-themed
> (Regency/Early
> American, Civil War, Dickens) and contra (for the last five or so years,
> but
> only a few times a year).
>
> My answers are different for each kind of thing.
>
> For English, I typically call more duple minor (usually proper) than
> anything
> else, but try to mix it up with small-set dances (two-couple set,
> three-couple
> set, squares) and a triple minor or two in an evening. Since tunes go with
> particular dances, I also consider variety in mood, key, meter, and tempo
> when
> I'm making up the program. (I'll also use what I know about the musicians
> I
> have that night and try to keep away from notey reels for a fiddler with
> tendinitis, bias toward Bb tunes if I have a cello player, etc.)
>
> For barn dances, anything goes. Sicilians, threesome Sicilians, big
> circles,
> grand march, circle mixer, whatever.
>
> For historically-themed, it depends somewhat on what I can justify
> historically, so Regency has lots of longways duples and some triples,
> mixed
> with an occasional three-couple set (adapted from a triple minor, like
> Fandango, Prince William, etc), interspersed with waltzes.
>
> For Civil War / Victorian, Sicilians, threesome Sicilians, whole sets in
> longways formation (Gothic Dance, Virginia Reel/Roger de Coverley), mixed
> up
> with waltzes, polkas, schottisches and galops.
>
> Around here (SF Bay Area) if you do a whole evening of duple-minor improper
> contras at a contra dance, nobody complains about it. Some callers like to
> include a square or two in an evening. A noticeable number of people will
> sit
> down if they realize it's a square. (As a dancer, I've had a partner bail
> on
> me when she realized it was a square.) That doesn't happen as much at
> local
> weekend or week-long camps, but at regular dances with local callers, 10%
> or
> more of the people who'd be up for a contra sit down for a square. I'm not
> the
> miracle square dance caller who's going to change their minds about it,
> either,
> so I don't program squares.
>
> When I first started calling contras here, my ten-dance program might have
> a
> circle mixer in slot three and a triplet sometime after the break. I've
> had
> complaints relayed to me about calling 'gimmicky' dances, and I wasn't
> getting
> great response from the triplets, so I've dropped those. I want to get
> invited
> back to call again, and I don't need to change everybody's mind about what
> a
> good time is.
>
> My most recent program (a very successful outing in Monterey last month)
> had a
> circle mixer in slot three (setting the ground for the poussette figure I
> used
> in "Joyride" later) and a four-face-four right after the break, and I got
> positive response to both of those. (The music was great; if it weren't I
> could have had the best program in the world and it wouldn't have been a
> wonderful evening.)
>
> -- Alan
>
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